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The Dance

1/21/2021

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why taking the phone away from your teen doesn't work
The Dance
 
Homework not done, take away the phone, homework gets done.
Next week… homework not done, take away the phone and video games, homework gets done.
Next week… homework not done.
 
Sound familiar?
 
Parents, are you running out of viable discipline options? Do you feel like the only thing you can do is take away technology to create changed behavior? Does that work? Or is a pattern emerging of the back-and-forth dance described above?
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Solution: Human Connection for Your Teen & Young Adult

5/28/2020

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Solution: Human Connection for your Teen & Young Adult
Dear Friends,
  • Do you worry about your teen/young adult struggling more now due to a lack of in-person socialization?
  • Do you wish they were embracing the moment more, regardless of what is happening in the world?

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Calming in a World of Chaos

1/9/2020

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I’m used to talking to parents, whether in my articles or in my sessions with them, about how to help their teenagers make stressful adjustments we’ve all had to make at some point in our lives. What qualifies us to teach our teens is that we’ve been through it before and have gained wisdom from lived experience. But what about the things we haven’t figured out yet? 
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5 Tips to Motivate Your Teen

7/14/2018

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5 Tips to Motivate Your Teen
As they say, you can lead a horse to water, but you can’t make him drink. The same is true for your teen. Though we may know what’s best for our kids (or at least think we do), we can’t make them do it. They have to want to do it themselves. In other words, they have to be motivated. In today’s article I share five tips to help your teens get–and stay–motivated.
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How to Open Your Teen’s Mind

5/4/2018

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How to Open Your Teen’s Mind
One of our most sacred roles as parents is to prepare our children for a successful future. What success means to each of us may differ, but we can all agree that resilience, flexibility, and adaptability play a large role. How, then, do we weave these qualities in our kids?
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The Truth about Teens and Weed

12/29/2017

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On an afternoon I’ll never forget, one of my teen clients walked through the door, dropped into a chair, and proudly stated that he had discovered the key to happiness: weed. It’s his medicine, he says, and it makes him feel good. If he could only get a medical marijuana card, everything would be solved.
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Networking: It’s Not Just for Adults Anymore

1/7/2017

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Networking: It’s Not Just for Adults Anymore
Co-authored by Dennis Charles, author of Word Of Mouth: Networking To Take Your Business Into The Stratosphere
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When you push aside all the technology, all the gadgets and apps and filters, you’re left with a simple truth: we’re people who like to connect with other people. We’re social creatures, always have been and always will be. Connection brings us love and happiness. It also brings us success. No matter what you want in life, chances are a person will make or break it. A new job? A person will make the call. A new business? A customer will make the difference. We may advance by the minute, but in the end we’re just people connecting with other people.

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The 6 Friends Your Teen Should Avoid

7/2/2016

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The 6 Friends Your Teen Should Avoid
Great friends are hard to find and important to keep. You know this from experience. But it may not be as clear for your teen. High school is a difficult place to find people who will bring value to your teen’s life. There is so much emphasis on social groups that it’s tough for teens to be themselves, both outside and inside these groups

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Step Back and Watch Your Child Build His Own Self-Esteem

7/2/2016

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Step Back and Watch Your Child Build His Own Self-Esteem
“My child looks sad and walks with his head down, hiding his face with his hoodie.” Parents say this to me all the time. “I don’t know what to do, what to say, to make him feel better. What should we do?

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5 Ways Summer Camp Helps Your Child Prepare for Adulthood

7/2/2016

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When I think back on my own camp experience, I recall standing on a wooden tower about 10, maybe 15, feet off the ground. Several people I had recently met stood below. They were yelling at me to fall. I’d just met these people; why on earth would I trust them enough to catch me? I put my arms across my chest and fell back through the air. Whack! I’d been caught

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